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writes:I know there have been similar questions to this recently but I could really do some advice. I have a friend who has told me they like me more than a friend but im not sure how i feel about them as im not attracted to them physically. However, the more I talk to him, the more I cant get him out of my head but I dont know whether its his personality im falling for or whether im falling for the idea of being in a relationship (as i havnt been in one for years and its something i really want) as I know he wants to be with me. How can I sort out my feelings as I know that he wont wait forever?? I think that the thing im most afraid of is that because i really want to be in a relationship, my mind is convincing myself that hes the one i want to be with as I know i could be with him if i wanted, and if i do tell him i feel the same, once i do get with him the lack of physical attraction will hold me back and I really dont want to mess him about. Please help, im so confused!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Eve`s right, don`t even think about it. It`s nice that you said you don`t want to mess him about, that shows you`re not selfish in a "me me me" way. Enjoy your friendship with this guy, who knows, in time he could become one of your best buddies, and you may be confiding in each other about your respective relationships! Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 March 2007):
 If there's no chemistry there with you for him then pass! You'll always see what's on the surface and not what lies underneath. You're not ready for a meaningful relationship yet so I definitely wouldn't go there.
Eve
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