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writes:OK so I've got a bit of a problem and it's bugging me big time. A couple weeks ago I went on a few dates with a girl and I really liked her, usually if I'm with a girl my intentions are pretty obvious, but with her it was different, I really liked her, still do.But my friend said stuff to her on my computer (my msn) so she thinks I'm a complete weirdo now, she was ignoring me before this too, but I figured I might still have a shot with her in the future sometime, but now it's completely hopeless.I've been totally bummed out the last 3 weeks and have been thinking about her non-stop, is there anything I can do to try and set things right?I don't want to tell her how much I like her out of the blue, especially now because she'll thik I'm a creep, any advice would be appreciated, thanks.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 send her flower and apologize for your friend's disrespect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know, I think Imight just tell my buddy to sit down, go on my msn and tell her himself. Two birds with one stone.
Even if it is an apology, I'm not too sure she'll want to hear anything I have to say.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 just tell her that your friend was messing around on your computer and said those things to her, and go from there.
And get your mate back!
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (10 September 2007):
There's not a whole lot you can do. All you can really do is tell her what happened, try to continue on as if the creepy messages weren't sent, and hope for the best. Meanwhile smack your "friend" upside the head.
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reader, sofymp  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Well, i think that at first you've got to cut off your relationship with that 'friend'. I think that if she wants you and likes you she won't let you go because of the things that she read. You've got to talk to her, not to say that you like her, but you have to say to her that was a big mistake and if there's anything that your friend said and it's true, you have to tell her what really happened, and if she really liked you she will believe everything you say. I don't think that a person could be weirdo, it could be different. You don't have to lie. Tell her everything and if she doesn't believe you, she was not for you. Kisses
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