A
female
age
41-50,
*isswilliams
writes: I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment. I am confused, don't you think that after three years someone should know their intentions! He has told me that he loves me, a few times. What do I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, sexi +, writes (10 September 2007):
Hi
You need to take charge. You seem to know what you want and you need him to play his part in yourlls relationship.You should try and get a reason as to why he doesnt want to commit, you need to know where you stand with him.After speaking to him and tellin him what your intentions are, you should ask him to decided whether he is willing to give you what you are looking for.If he doesnt want anything serious now then you need to decide whether you want to wait for him (until he is ready) or you want to get out of the relationship. Speak to him first and then decide.Also counselling should help the both of help.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Most guys know in the first WEEK if they want a commitment with you. Dump this fool!
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