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writes:hey there, i have so many problems right now i dont know how to handdle them all im about to expload!, ok well first off, im 17 and hate living at home, yea im sure every 17 year old says that but im not even kidding i dont think i need to live at home anymore i mean when i am home im always up in my room cuz i hate living here i never really eat and if i do i make it for myself i do my own laundry, my rents dont do raelly anything for me except pay for the roof above my head and give me very little money if i ask for it i can find a different roof to put over my head and i have a job just not much hours, my mom is an alcoholic and my step dad is a hard butt and always finds something to bitc* about...i stay at my bfs house alot but his mom is starting to get a little upset because her oldest son moved back home...pretty much i dont know what to do anymore cuz im always depressed when im at home cuz of my parents and to top it all off im worried i might be pregnant :( yup well ill take all the edvice i can get thanks much!
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reader, The Pokemon Trainer +, writes (7 May 2010):
 Yeah, you're really fucked. But there's hope.
I'd say it shows some character that you're working, and most parents will appreciate the effort. But if you're really too miserable to live with your parents, perhaps you could convince them to help you move out? Get your own place, somewhere cheap. might be hard, but lotsa people go to work and school at the same time. If they won't let you leave, you can still get out. In many states, if you can prove that your living conditions suck, you can get a court to legally emancipate you from your parents (just understand that you'll be homeless if that happens). if you do that, and manage to graduate, scholarship sponsors look very favorably upon teen mothers and young people who support themselves. So, you could get a lot of government money and scholarships to put you through college.
But for now, you need to forget about the boyfriend The last thing his family needs is a goddamn moocher. Square away your own life before you have a relationship.
And if you have a baby... Adoption. Your life will be fucked if you have a child at your age. If you'll keep it, you'll regret it.
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