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writes: hello.... every1 !! i m a 14-yr-old student answering my Xth this academic year, in love with a 15-yr-old doing his XIth. we've been seeing each other for the last 3 months. he was really very impressive during the 1st month...later slowly we couldn't give each other much time as i had classes in the morn and he had in the eve,, but still everything was going on well though at times he was really possesive. as i m friendly with many guys he always had a problem but he compromised soon.. 2 weeks ago he ended up asking me about how many guys i was dating at the same time..i was realy disturbedand ended up cutting my hand. but still after dat soon things were better and everything was okay. on the previous sunday i had to go out with my parents for some religious ceremony and he too doesn't belong to my religion ! just when i returned home, i messaged him but he replied saying he wanted to break up. it just spoiled my day and i even had104 degree fever... one of my friend too informed him about it. the next day i.e. yesterday he was suppose to leave for a prilgrimage with his parents. before leaving he messaged saying he just wanted to remain as my friend but didn't speak to me about it directly. now that he is already out of station at least for the next 2 weeks i don't know how to contact him and clarifyeverything as he doesn't reply to my messages or even receive my calls. i don'twanna lose him at any state in life. i just can't see any hope of even staying alive without he being a part of my life. i m really lost and just don't know what to do. please help me preserve this relationship. though i decide to be patient it just doesn't help even a bit..! Reply to this Question
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reader, starismine1  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 I see a big future in your life finding love with an amazing guy who will treat you very well. I also sense you have a great sense of humor, lots of friends, but crave attention from guys to feel good about yourself. You are going through a very trying time in your life right now but will get through it. It's okay to feel lonely, it's okay to feel rejection, and it's okay to want this guy to want you, that's normal to feel at your age...just remember, he can exist or not exist in your mind, you can erase thoughts of him, you have the power to do that, just decide you want to it and your mind will oblige and life will move forward. It is destined to be a great one once you harness your personality and use it in positive ways to enhance your life. Try offering to help others in need, it will give you a sense of purpose and put your life's temporary troubles in better perspective.
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