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writes:I was in a relationship with someone for a couple of years. We broke up but remained good friends. Out of the blue he told me that he was getting married to a girl he's known for three weeks...I found this very strange, as he is not the type of guys to make impulsive decisions that will affect the rest of his life.Either way, i respected his decision. But he came to my place, and the spark between us was once again strong, so we ended up sleeping together. He's phoned me a couple of times because he was "thinking of me" or "just wanted to say hi".It is really confusing me. I still love him very much, and am starting to wonder if there is a small part of him that might feel the same and is having doubts about his commitment with this other woman...?
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (26 August 2007):
You better talk to him. See what is going on and if there is potential to start up again. Especially since he is engaged. I mean this marriage is doomed from the start, they've known each other three weeks and then he had sex with you. You might save them both from doing something that they will later regret.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 The strangest thing i might have ever met 3 years ago. But like i have always stressed, there is nothing apart from God's will that can completely ever destroy what has happened btn a man and a woman b4 as long as they sleep togethr. I dont think there is still as strong a bond as thre was before despite the fact that both of you are bound to continue sahgging no matter what happens. Only God has a sloution to that problem.
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reader, cassandra_096 +, writes (25 August 2007):
wow! well i think you should talk to him about what happened.if he says hes still goin 2 get married then ask him why he slept with you.2 me its pretty strange as well.i just think you 2 need to talk the whole thing out!xoxo
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reader, x_goddess_x  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 why don't you get him on his own and speak to him about it and if he did love you more than his wife he would be doin her a favor by leaving her for you because then she can find someone who she realy does love and if he loves you then he can be with you and even if he dnt have those feelings for you it better to tlk because then you no were you stand but sleep with him until he breaks up wid her cuz that his just mean on the wife
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