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*nsureeAndInLove
writes:Hey,, Well, recently i have met up with this guy who i reallly like. I think i am in love with him and i think he feels the same. We text practically from when we wake up to when we go to sleep and i can't stop thinking about him. I visit him a lot and he is coming to visit me to. I haven't been so happy in ages.However, he actually lives on the other side of the world. He is in here for a couple of monthes and i am really scared of getting too close to him. I know that the day will come when he is going to have to leave and i don't think i will be able to cope with it..Having said that, i can't hold back my feelings for him. I want to see him every minute of the day.I really don't know what to do.Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?Or will him going away leave a perminant scar?Please Help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Courage and perhaps some foolishness too. After failed emotions with too many time wasters, you tend to lose the enthusiasm and faith for love, and all it becomes is a way of committing emotional suicide. But I think it's each to their own. If a person chooses a life without love, it's their choice, and they can be just as happy as someone who accepts love in their life, but runs the risk of getting their heart broken. I personally think now that prevention is better than cure (in other words i'd rather avoid the risk of being hurt, than chance it, and have to pick up the pieces 'again' after a broken heart).
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reader, wordsofwisdom  +, writes (22 August 2009):
This is an easy one! The answer is yes it is, but understand that you may be hurt in all of this. It is him that will have a place to go, and you that will be in the atmosphere of the probable pain of rejection. You only have once to let your heart be known, so by all means, go for it! True love exists although it seems rare, but you follow your heart, sometimes it is all you have that is leading you!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 I think it is better to have loved and lost. It takes some courage, however; be sure you have it.
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