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writes:Is there a way to decrease a persons sex drive? I'm horny all the time and it's causing tension with my boyfriend because he thinks I'm only with him for sex, I want to prove him wrong.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 June 2008):
Head on over to Anne Summers (or an adult website if you are shy) and buy a sex toy.
Then tell your man that you are not going to have sex with him again until he agrees that you are with him for love not sex.
You can use your toy to survive and work on being the best girl ever. Tease him but turn him down for a week and soon he'll be begging for the old horny you to come back.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Sophia_Sweetheart +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Hey =]
Well have you tried just cuddling up together and watching a film? I know how you're feeling (really!) but just choose the times you really can't go without sex, and have sex then. Try not to feel the urge all the time if you can help it! Go out with him somewhere where you can't have sex - the cinema maybe? A walk in the park is always lovely. Go to the gym or play some sports with him? Something that keeps you busy and he enjoys, where you get to spend time together and avoid feeling the urge too much! Good luck sweetheart!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 I believe most men would be glad to have a girl who is always willing. That would boost anybody's ego all the way up to the most distant galaxies, as it would mean the girl is very truly enjoying it.
I think not sleeping with him for a while wouldn't really show him you're with him for something other than sex. I'm afraid it could even backfire, as in "How come it used to be impossible to get her off me, and now she's not coming my way?". Show him how you care outside the bed. That should be the proof he needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): I suggest you should make love at least 12 hours a day every day. If he objects, just tie him to the bed and don't let him go until you are completely satisfied.
I know exactly how you feel. That's what I do. He will get used to it after a while and he will stop complaining.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (17 June 2008):
 A funny thing all this. There are people who worry about having enough sex and then you have a concern about having too much sex. Just thinking of the irony of your situation.
Do I assume you had sex on the first date? If so no doubt that will be why you possibly have sex so much.
Time will tell in a relationship. Once you have been together xxxx amount of time, it becomes apparent that the relationship isn't just about sex. You have more knowledge on eathothers common interests, dreams, etc.
I am not sure how you spend your time together. Do you mainly go to bars/clubs? If so why not suggest a day out to see a castle, historic house, museum, country walk. Just a different kind of new experience together, which will give you something to discuss and plan for.
I am not sure if he ever feels 'too available for sex'? There was just one time when I did, which was when we had sex three times when we got back from a night out, twice in the morning. Then once at 3pm. I just thought that perhaps there was something else to do in the day that's all. Not sure if something like that has been an issue?
After all, this kind of thing only happens at the start of a relationship, and certainly doesn't when you are married.
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Think you can control your sex drive for a day or two to prove to him that you're not always trying to get him in bed?
Have you ever told your boyfriend, what you're going through? He may be more understanding if you tell him that's it's because of him, you're always so horny, because you enjoy being with him and you care about him a lot.
Sorry, I don't really don't know what else to suggest to decrease your sex drive... Although, if you're on birth control, there is a risk factor of decrease in sex drive - what form of protection are you using?
Hope this helps!
xo
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