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writes:I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have been through so much together. I have 3 children and he has been involved with them %100.. we are a family..My childrens' father is not easy and complicates things like decision making when it comes to their upbringing or practical issues. My partner says he feels powerless in this family and can not influence things. He wants to make a difference and would like his own family, and own children.He basically walked out on us 10 weeks ago and we are just devastated. He is having a really hard time himself and says he still loves me. But he has now made a decision and moving on. He thinks that this is best for both of us. He wants children and I already have them. In the other hand his love for me was just amazing.. We have been really good for each other and I dont want to give him up. He is good for the family and I love him, he makes me feel home. He says the same things about me. I could go on to have another child but not sure if I can cope as my children are now teenagers and I feel I can now have my own time and freedom.I have been losing sleep over this and feel like there is still hope for us, or is it really over and am just in denial. I did ring him tonight and cried on the phone, I know this upsets him but I was desperate to hear his voice. Really miss him.What is the best thing to do ?I want to try to bring him back home but not sure if this is right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the first answer.. I will try a prayer. I have accidently rated the answer very poor, didnt mean to. Just dont know how to use the site yet..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): I am 29 years old still looking for mister right u have that my parents have been married for 30 years and i thanks god that even through evrything my father put my mom she stood their for him. this situationt doesnt comp[are to your but u have the person u love next to u their is hope fix it put everything you have fix it god is good if your not religious for once pray and he will help the situation beause he did it for my pareants they at one point where going to get divorce and they gave it once last chance but they gave it everything they had to make it work and you have 3 kids that have that person that its 100% a father treasure that becs i have 2 and their fathers arent their for them like i would like. You could fix it sit down and talk let each other know how both feel dont hold back bring it out in the open believe me its going to help becs if their is something you dont like about him or him from you its going to be said and dont forget have faith god does do miracles. God bless you and your family and remember have faith that everything is going to work out for the best
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