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My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!

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Question - (30 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xx_x writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her.

It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs about it saying so what she's 'sexy' and everything, I honestly don't know what to do any more.

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A female reader, smartazngirl United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

smartazngirl agony auntI think he's trying to look like a jerk to you so you can break up with him. I think it's actually quite nice of him to do that... Maybe he fell out of love with you and doesn't want to use that excuse.

My answer obviously isn't the best. So, don't take it too hard.

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (30 January 2009):

Plexi agony auntI comltetely agree with Tanplante, couldn't have said it better myself. If he's trying to push you away cause he wants to be free to.. then honey set him free.

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A male reader, cdjudd United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

If you find this behavior intolerable now, chances are it won't change. When you said you don't like the idea, it should have been dropped and never mentioned again. The fact he's laughing at you when you speak of you feel, says a lot aswell. Also, once people have threesomes, the relationship rapidly combusts. Keep that in mind. Best of luck to you.

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