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*enniem
writes: need help!ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3mths and before i met him he,d only had sex once and that didnt go well.my prob is that no matter what i do i just cant make him come. he can come when he masturbates......im at my wits end.he says we can sort it out, but im starting to feel really bad coz i feel like im letting him down.ive never had this problem before and i just dont know what to do.ive tried all the usual tricks...massage,oral etc.. and although he can keep an erection he just doesnt come.help please. lads i'd love your input on this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): if you find the apropriate time, i.e a time when you can see he's having problems with it, ask him what he thinks would work. if it bothers him that he's not getting enough out of sex then he'll tell you
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 How about a female point of view? This has nothing to do with you and everything to do with your boyfriend. If he can come during masturbation , he can come during sex. The problem is, he is used to the firmer pressure that masturbation offers, vs. the lighter pressure of you. Suggest to him that he lighten his hand, lay of his monkey for a bit, and keep trying with you. It will happen once he gets used to the new sensations.
Now how do you tell him this? Ask him to consider that this maybe a solution, do it nicely with a sweet smile, and offer yourself as practice as much as possible. :)
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reader, baybee_shiv_x  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 use other methods than sex to make him orgasm! or get some special lubricant from durex and rub that onto hid peanus for 5minutes tehn have sex....works for me and my boyfriend! _X good luck
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