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My BF has never come while we have been having sex! What am I doing wrong?

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Question - (7 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2006)
A female , *XxNikixXx writes:

hi i am going out with my boyfriend over a year we have had sex 6 times but i dont enjoy that much as i am worrying about if i am doing it right. I'm not sure on what to do and just lie there could any1 give me tips please? I feel awful and just want to enjoy it. He has never come while we have been doing it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

Are you sure you are ready and mature enough to be in a sexual relationship?

I ask because if you were, you would say all this to your boyfriend.

I very much doubt him not cuming is your fault. I suspect he is probably as nervous as you are.

You both need a proper grownup, mature talk about each of your expectations and desires. If you don't think you can do that then you shouldn't be having sex just yet.

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A male reader, I Waited For The One United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2006):

I Waited For The One agony auntxXxNikixXx it's a shame to hear about your problem's but i why not try some other postion's. try biting him during sex. make him pull your hair just keep it simple. don't listen to the person saying break up because it sound's like he doesn't have a clue. try to relax before sex give him a massage. or tell him to give you one and see how thing's go. if nofthing else work's try playing with him during sex or yourself (i love that when my girl does that)

hope this help's.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

No one has ever cum???

Reminds me of the joke- "was that good for you?" " I dont think that was good for anybody".

If you are under 17 stop having sex.

If you are 17 or older breakup. Maybe you two can get back together after a year or so, but it just shouldnt be this hard.

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