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writes: me and my boyfriend have been together 3 months now.we couldnt be happier and we havent gone all of the way yet but are doing things.but everytime we do, i can never come.or at least, i cant take alot, but because of this we never finish things,what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 This is totally normal. Most women never come during sex and many don't come at all unless they're alone. Work with your partner, relax and find something that works for you. Nobody can give you rules on what makes a women come: nobody knows. Just try new things, be patient and communicate with each other.
You're only young, as you get older and get more in touch with your own sexuality, you'll start to realise what you like and get more confident to ask him to do more things. Until then, relax and enjoy it, even if you don't come.
Good luck
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reader, Reebe +, writes (15 January 2007):
 I'm not sure what you mean by "i can never take alot" It takes practice to find out what turns you on, and you 2 have only been together for 3 months. Take things slower and build things up gradually, try touching yourself as this is the best way to find out what you are going to find pleasueable. Take things steady and in time you'll know exactly what to do. Also you need to be fully relaxed with this guy. if your not then this can make you tense which will make it more difficult to feel anything.
Good Luck and be safe.
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