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*iracles123
writes:It was my birthday yesterday. My boyfriend did not get me anything but on Saturday his Nan gave him £30 to go to town and get me something. He said he wanted to go to Margate so I was like oh fair enough.About 3 hours later he had returned shuting outside my house. I found out he went to Whistable and spent that £30 on drink and was pissed out of his face.I don't really care that he didn't get me anything just he lied to me saying he was and instead he went to whistable and got drunk.Yesterday he didn't even say HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I Kept having to walk up to him instead of him coming to me. Just lately he has been really out of order towards me and I don't know what to do?HelpPlease.Miracle.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): hey girl i KNOW what your sayin my man puts EVERYTHING b4 me and sum stuff is ok like family or what not but he would rather be with his friends or jamming in his new found group and love for music.AAAHHHHH ITS so bs!!! i mean it's like he TRYS to find things to do other then to EVER be thinking about us.Man im sick of it i just want to tell him he has no idea what life and love and family is about and tell him to screw off and i hope he learns from this!!! Like i LOVE my music and being with my friends but theres a balance u know?With him there is no balance,everything comes b4 me.like hes jammed everyday this wk except for 1 and i haven't seen him but once in 5days.And ive had the bday thing happen too.he never said anything and the party he thru that night was for him and his friends,heDIDN'T even want me there.that HURT.we've been together for 4 yrs and some days i feel like i wasted my time like he doesn't even care or he's just completly dense.idk maybe we should end this bs.....???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Well love - it's your funeral, as they say!
Best of luck - you'll need it.
No doubt we'll see you on the Jeremy Kyle Show sometime soon eh?
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reader, Miracles123 +, writes (7 April 2008):
Miracles123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok . Sorry Confusion. We are back together. Just having little problems again. I really do give up. Thanks for commenting.
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reader, Miracles123 +, writes (23 March 2008):
Miracles123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks.
Yeah we have split Up now .
For the best i think.
just ita hard i see him down the road && i just want to go up to him && kiss him.
I Miss Him We Hardley Talk AnyMore.
Thansk Again.
Miracles-ox
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (18 March 2008):
 Miracles,
You need to get another boyfriend. Besides, he is TOO YOUNG to be drinking in the first place. Sorry about your Birthday. You cannot make someone do what you want or make them change unless THEY want to. Try talking when he's sober and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't care, (which it seems he doesn't or he would have acted more responsibly), drop him.
Despite HIM, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Gena
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reader, Skeez +, writes (18 March 2008):
 wow...rather immature i must say. He obviously hasnt got a care in the world about you, and would rather spend the money his NAN gave him to get you a present on booze. What does that tell you hmm?? I think you know the answer sweety. Just kick him to the kirb and walk away. You can have somehting much better than that.Anyways your only young, so theres high chance you will get a boyfriend soon who will treat you with respect and isnt so immature
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 March 2008):
 Total agreement, show him the door. Life's too short...lots of fish in the sea...greener pastures
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Please dump him! He is immature and a sad excuse for a bf. If your age is really correct (13 - 15) why is he drinking anyway, he might have some real issues. Getting pissy drunk before 18 - 19 is out of control. To be honest he can't possibly care about you or himself with those kind of actions. Thank his Nan and call it a day, you will be better off.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (18 March 2008):
 He is being rude, imature, inconsiderate and loutish. His Nan gave him money to buy you a gift (ok, thats wrong right there, he should be spending his own money to buy you a gift, not hitting up Nan!) and instead he spent it all on himself getting drunk. That shows disrespect for both his Nan and for you. Dump him.
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reader, kb123 +, writes (18 March 2008):
hi he seemes like a loser he is verry immature ,irresponsible and very selfish i know its hard to dump someone you love but he is just stupid he does not know how to treat a girl he is probs just useing you a say just dump him he will probley come out with a load of crap and start saying i love you and im relly sory but dont listen because he will just do the same to you again !
good luck
let me know how my advice goes x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Get rid now before he really does your head in!
take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): He's obviously a very irresponsible, very immature very selfish young man and you would be as well to dump him. He obviously thinks very little of either you OR his Nan if he can behave like this, and he thinks money grows on trees.
Quick answer = Dump him. Like as of now. You can do better.
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