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writes: I love my boyfriend. I love my bff as well, but her boyfriend kissed me. He also flirts with me when my bff and my boyfriend aren't around. He's always touching me and trying to hug me. I want to tell my boyfriend, but I'm too afraid that he'll break it off with me. I want to tell my bff, but I know she'll be mad at me. I've told her boyfriend if he doesn't stop I'll tell, but he tells me they'll believe him over me. My boyfriend, probably not. My bff, probably. I don't want to lose my boyfriend or my bff. What should I do?
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (14 July 2009):
Yeah, in this situation....I mean if you really care about your friend, you HAVE to warn her about what kind of guy she's dealing with here.. Even if you don't want to tell your boyfriend, i would tell your friend..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): You should tell both of them tell your boyfriend first and discuss what ye can do. Secondly you need to talk to your best friend if she is your friend she will want to stop this guy from sleazing on you. You cant let this guy get away with making you feel uncomfortable when you are around him and dont worry you boyfriend should believe you and so should your friend if she really cares for you. Good luck hun.K...x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): I would suggest you bring the subject up when the four of you are together and tell him to knock it off. I don't think anyone would disbelieve you in those circumstances. If your boyfriend has anything about him he'll most likely want to break this guy's nose than break it off with you.
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 What a sleaze. Maybe bring it up in front of everyone, and start off by telling both your boyfriend and your best friend what Mr Sleazy said about them not believing you over him. If they blame you for his behaviour then they're not very good friends anyway and you get to keep your self respect. Good luck.
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reader, Your friend +, writes (14 July 2009):
 He will keep harassing you and taking advantage of you unless you put a stop to it. He will become more daring and eventually become more aggressive sexually as well as this if he gets caught he will blame you and then you will really be in trouble. So you have no choice but to tell someone, If your bff will be mad with you then you have no choice but to tell your boyfriend, don't worry what will happen next as this no longer your concern or responsibility.
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