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writes:I've met some girl online we get along really well, Always talking (alot) Very open and honest, Play games together and even watch movies together..Problem is she has a bf :/She knows how i feel and i beleive she likes me but i dont know anymore one minute we're watching romantic movies and flirting, she sent me a bikini picture of her and i made a sexually suggestive comment i was abit scared of her thinking i was just another pervert so i kind of made an excuse to "afk" for a few minutes and she responded with something along the lines of "Why do you always avoid getting close to me when i try?" and she would often say things like "Why couldnt i have met you before i met my bf?"But now she has taken a complete u-turn, Doesnt want to watch any romantic movies anymore, instead of making flirty comments and responding to mine she rarely does now.I'm really not sure what to do anymore..we argue over this subject abit and shes always like "Why cant you just accept being my friend? I have a boyfriend blah blah"I'm not sure what to do anymore, In my head if she said "Why couldnt i meet you before i met my bf" its more or less saying she likes me more? But now shes just pushing me away..Should i accept just being a friend when she has shown all that interest?Should i just give up and stop contact?I really dont know what to do :/
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (25 May 2011):
I think she likes you, may be just like she likes her boyfriend. She can find you more interesting because you aren't her boyfriend. But it's obvious she isn't fully into you, because she didn't dump her current boyfriend.If you like her fore something more than a physical thing, forget about her. If you only want sex, I guess she could accept that as long as she doesn't leaves her boyfriend.
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reader, Tyedyedturtle  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 She's being a flirt and treating you like dirt. She wants the attention of both worlds, but doesn't care about your feelings or her boyfriend's. Sounds like a biaaatch to me, bro. Dump her and move on. I bet you'd much rather a nice girl who actually genuinely cares about you and doesn't lead you on.
Good luck :)
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (25 May 2011):
 This certainly is an emotional affair that has run its course. You provided this insecure little girl with a break from her ho-hum relationship and now that you have no further use, you are on the outside looking in. By being her friend you need to be available when she wants you and be able to take on any role that suits her whim. If you enjoy being used like this continue but I would recommend cutting out.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 If she didn't have a boyfriend, what would you do? Does she live in the same country as you? LDRs can be difficult.I would say if she's in a relationship, don't be pushy with her. Just be her friend for now.
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