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writes:HI im 18 years old 6'2" 180 lbs average body size and there is a reason for the specs so keep reading. Theres this girl she is amazing and she wants to start dating but im not sure about it i REALLY like this girl shes beautiful wild and random but she is also a NEMPHO and i am not your TYPICAL guy i think sex should be somthing that means love and passion and hell even experimenting if your comfortable anyway she explained her sex life to me tonight and admitted she was addicted to sex and ive seen some of the guys she dated and slept with and damn i top all of the (hints the personal specs) the problem is i work 7 days on and 7 days off and i like to work overtime when i can and dont hav a place of my own and im starting aviation school next year and i dont want to jump into a relationship based on sex b/c in my eyes it will only complicate things (no i am not a virgin) she ddnt belive me either but i am scared to get attached and find out she cheated on me b/c i work too much and worry about my school too much but at the same time i dont want her to be the one that got away can someone please help me thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): If she is an admitted sex addict, I would advise you stay away from her. True sexual addiction is not something people 'just quit'. Advise her to get help and when she is recovered, you would be more than willing to go out with her. She will cause total chaos in your life. If you don't understand sex addiction, think of alcoholism...would you become involved with an alcoholic? Partners of sexual addicts hurt emotionally much more than partners of any other addictions, I know, I was one. It is one of the hardest addictions to break.It is best not to fall in love with someone like this, you are wise to question your involvement with her. Stick to your goals and you will be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): What's your question?Worrying that she'll cheat is a trust issue. And you haven't really said why you think she's a "nympho" at all. Is it because she's had a lot of sex? What has how attractive her ex's are have to do with anything? You're question is a bit confusing. If you're worried she'll cheat. talk to her about it. If you don't trust her, you dont have much of a relationship anyway. If you are not ready for a serious relationship, then dont get involved with her!
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (21 September 2009):
Hmm, she should see a doctor, it sounds like her hormones could be out of whack.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Hi
YOu sound like a great guy! Glad to meet you btw. So, her sex life is extensive. Maybe she thinks that guys are only after one thing? Has she ever been in a real relationship? Talk to her. And if not, then show her what being with a man is really like.. in the real sense of the word. Perhaps it's time she got appreciated for who she is. Love changes people, and if it builds up to be something substantial, then trust me, I think there is a fair chance that she will change.
However, if her cravings truly are an addiction, then help her get help. She needs to be treated.
Good Luck
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