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writes: I just lost my virginity, tbh it was painful and i never enjoyed it at all, according to my friend its because he never did foreplay. Even though i was not satisfied, apparently he was because he came on the inside of my thighs. The cum wasn't alot and he ccame back with tissue and started to wipe my vagina, even on the inside. My period is due to come in at least a week from now and I want to know if there is any possibility I could become pregnant from that.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 December 2017):
Yes you could be pregnant but you could also have caught an sti from him if you did not use protection, I would make an appointment with your doctor to go through different options and ways to have safe sex.
Also yes it was more than likely painful if you where not ready and there was no foreplay. However it is always going to be sore the first time and not the best experience. Always make sure that you are ready and that you really want it. Lubrication should make it less dry and more enjoyable. I am more concerned about the unprotection part off it and I do highly recommend if you are going to be sexually active to make sure you use condoms to prevent any nasty infections or diseases.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (22 November 2017):
Yes. You can get pregnant from having unprotected sex. Doesnt matter how long time he was inside, or if he came a lot or a litle.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (22 November 2017):
OP, see a doctor. Don't have sex unless you're using reliable contraception.
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reader, 02DuszJ +, writes (22 November 2017):
It's unlikely pre cum but POSSIBLE. NEVER TAKE THE RISK. Unless you want to be THAT girl with the baby/ abortion
See your Doctor for contraceptive advice- yes it does hurt the first time for EVERYONE. But if you're going to be doing this regularly be SURE you want it, and that you are ready because you don't sound that clued up on sex or if i'm being honest- responsible enough.
Sex is an adult activity and and a lot of countries don't consider you an adult until 18.. You are nor WEIRD if you don't FEEL ready at 17.. these days sex is worryingly normal and casual for teenagers, and no matter what everyone else says, it's a BIG thing and personal to YOU.
Go to the doctors and ask about contraception. It's advisable to use condoms if you don't know him well because he could have an STI. And guess what- people can have STDs even if theyre convinced they don't..
Good luck, be safe
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (22 November 2017):
There is a possibility. Withdrawal is not a very reliable form of contracception. Particularly if you follow up by rubbing sperm-soaked tissue paper inside yourself.
I am sorry, all you can do now is to keep your finger crossed and hope you weren't fertile that day, and if the pregnancy test comes out negative, learn from this mistake and use reliable contracception before having sex again.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (22 November 2017):
Yes, absolutely you could get pregnant from what you did. If a man's penis enters your vagina, there is always a possibility of pregnancy. Even if the man doesn't ejaculate inside you and withdraws (as sounds to be the case), there is always the possibility of semen escaping. Withdrawal is NOT a reliable form of contraception.
Hopefully you will have got away with it this time but, if your period is late, you need to get a pregnancy test as a matter of urgency.
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