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writes:I was talking with a guy online and never met him .We chat for month so. He had to travel for work. We were still in contact when he were out of country for his work. Finally, he came back to state and wanted to meet me. I told him I don’t want to have sex before marriage. He disappeared for week so but text me back I really don’t understand what his words means . I told him I don’t want to have sex till marriage He replies I am ok with it. There will be some learning to do and I can not promise you a happily ever after. We have to try to get to know eachother or else we will never find out. Can someone please explain what he wants to say.I am sorry I am not native speaker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks aunt honesty for your reply
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2017):
 Hi op am pretty sure he doesn’t mean he cannot sexually satisfy you in the future. What I get from your post is that he is willing to get to know you more and see what happens. It sounds like he is interested and it also sounds that even though he may find sex before marriage difficult he is willing to get to know you. This is all good signs so maybe meet up with him and see how it goes,
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2017): Really I would never marry someone I never had sex with.What if you are not sexually compatible?It does happen.Then you are stuck in a unhappy marriage.You end up divorced.What if you wonder later how would it be with someone else?Being a virgin is wonderful do not get me wrong but I am glad I was not and got to learn all the differences there are out there.If you do that be sure to be safe get on birth control use condoms and see your doctor and educate yourself on safe sex and STDs.Some people do marry just so they can have sex and alot of them are very unhappy.Also you do not have to even bring up no sex till after marriage....that will scare men away from you so fast.You do not have sex with someone right away anyway not until you know them better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi , he didn’t use marriage word . I think he wants to tell me he is okay to date me but not to have sex but maybe he will not satisfied me sexually in the future. He can’t promise that.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 November 2017):
 He is saying he wants to get to know you. And that he CAN NOT promise you marriage. (yet) which I think is fair enough, no one wants to marry someone JUST so they can have sex with them. (I hope).
He wants to meet you in person to see if the two of you have chemistry, get along, are attracted to each other etc.
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