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Hi am a visually impaired, coming up to the middle-age male who is now having a sexual relationship with a lady who has Cerebral Palsy (CP). We have been going out for over one year now. What qualifies me to help people?

Well, i have not taken any courses in that, but I think it can be useful, if you would like to hear my point of views. This is my first girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. I hope that some of my answers can be helpful to some people generally.

How can I be more confident sexually?

Q.   I have been seeing this amazing guy for about six months, he has been great with me but says he wishes I was more forward in makin moves, I have always let him do the work, lack of confidence I suppose, he wants me to go on top, how can I become ...

A.   29 December 2008: Hi there. Have been reading the answers to this question...... Good answers. You need to be comfortable with your own body and getting to feel whats good and then you can do this with your partner. I also feel that "dirty talk" is not for ... (read in full...)

Bereavement...

Q.   How is it best to deal with grief? My girlfriend/partner has been diagnosed as seriously ill. She has roughly eighteen days left. She has no knowledge of her serious condition and must not know whatsoever. I would also like some advice on how to ...

A.   4 February 2008: Thank you everyone for their condolenses on my situation. Sorry, but I want Esther not to hear her fate. I supposee the reason is so that she is worried. One of my friends and my mum agrees that she should not be told. I love her so much, that I ... (read in full...)

Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed.

Q.   Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed. It has been going on for a long time but why do you think i have them? Please Please Help Meeee xx...

A.   4 August 2007: Okay, I will gry and answer this question, from the angle of the opposite sex. When I was a couple of years younger, I had the same feelings as you. i was longing to have a girlfriend. It is a very normal fact of life. We all want companionship ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my online guy loves me? I love him despite the distance and difference of religion!

Q.   i never had a special boyfriend although i have been approached by a few guys. But, recently i met a guy on line, we first got to know each other from a epal club, after one month than we started chatting. Little did i expect that our relationship ...

A.   17 July 2007: Hi. Yes I agree with the posts. It takes time to get to know someone, not just on the internet. You have to actually also talk to them on the phone, on the internet and get to know them that way. You have to get to know them over time. I would ... (read in full...)

What do people think about this age difference?

Q.   There is an age gap of about eight years between boyfriend and girlfriend. I am 39 coming on 40 and my girlfriend is 30. What do people think about this age difference? ...

A.   15 July 2007: Thanks for your reply. Yes she is no prob with the distance or the age gap. Just wanted to get peoples views ok. ... (read in full...)

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