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41-50,
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writes:I am completely lost and confused. I don't know what to do and need help ASAP. I am currently taking a break from my boyfriend because I can't get over my ex fiance that I broke up with and my current b/f doesn't possess certain qualities I want - he hasn't gotten his GED yet and he is 24. He wants to, and wants to go to college, but doesn't have the money to even get his ged because he can't keep a job. He has had 5 since I've known him and that scares me. Some is because he moved down here and so had to relocate. He is nice to me, and my ex was emotionally abusive, but made a lot of money. I called my ex the other day and he apologized for a lot of things, but said we both know what we did wrong, so we shouldn't bring it up, and instead should move forward with a fresh start together because he still misses and loves me. problem is, I don't want things to revert to how they were. My current boyfriend says I would be making a huge mistake and be ruining my life, and my mom agrees. Maybe I shouldn't be with either but I can't let either go. I don't want to be in this mess that I got myself into. I just don't know what to do, I keep changing my mind every second. please help I am desperate!
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 you're not desperate or confused, you're just slightly shallow, selfish and spoilt brat-like.As by now I'm sure you have noticed Money does not equal Happiness. So the new BF is having a hard time with his career. As you mentioned Some is due to relocation... Relocation so he could be WITH YOU?I guess your BF should be ashamed of himself for not having any money, relocating to be with you and not being able to go to college because of money. Hell, if only he were as 'Perfect' as you.If you haven't picked up a newspaper or turned on the news lately, I suggest you do. Many people don't have money for food, let alone college right now.Try being a little more understanding eh?and if he's not what you're looking for then stop wasting yours and his time.
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