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*llona1216
writes:Okay i Fell in love with this guy summer of 09 when i was visiting my couzin in L.a...! he always flirted with me and told me he loved me..long story short he really liked this Girl named Miranda But he Used me and this girl named Bethany but he told every 1 the same thing your Amazing and what not...! what i hate is that 2 Miranda he is just another boy and i really have no idea what to do :( i love him and even tho i try i cant let go i have alot of songs that remind me of him and i just dont know what to do i really don't know how to stop loving him..! I Dont KNOW HOW TO FALL OUT OF LOVE AND IM LOVE SICK AND HE HURT ME REALLY BAD NOW IM JUST SAD AND DEPRESSED ALL THE TIME I FELT SOO BAD BECAUSE I TOLD HIM I MISSED TALKING 2 HIM...I MISS THE OLD HIM I JUST CANT GET OVER HIM AND I AM JUST HURT! EVERY TIME I CLOSE MY EYES I SEE HIM OR HEAR HIS VOICE IS'S IMPOSSIBLE FALLING OUT OF LOVE..!
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reader, BlueBag +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Its always hard to get over someone you love but it does happen, it just takes time. I would suggest you cut yourself off from all contact with him because by texting him and telling him you miss him, you are letting him think he can treat girls like that and get away with it. Try and enjoy being with your friends to take your mind off of him. At the end of the day, he hurt you, so you shouldn't waste your time and energy missing him. He's a loser who messes with girls' emotions and one day it will come back and bite him in the behind. You're still young and will have many boyfriends before you find Mr Right so wait for someone to come along who will treat you with the respect you deserve! Keep your chin up, you'll get there. :)
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Okay, firstly, I'm sorry he treated you badly. I've been in a similar situation (who hasn't really?!) and it does hurt a lot. The only way you're going to get out of feeling like this is by doing things that distract you.
Meditation worked for me (deep breathing exercises, very calming) and writing out my feelings in my diary which helps venting your feelings and not have anyone throw private things back in your face at a later date!
For now, you need to concentrate on you. Nothing gives this boy the right to have made you miserable and why should he get away with that? I know you say you love him, and maybe you do, but that isn't the thing to concentrate on at this time. Do things you enjoy, go shopping/walk in the park/the beach etc with close friends or by yourself, don't sit at home moping.
Depression is not something you want to give in to! If you make yourself happy by doing things you enjoy, you will be happier in your self. Wish you good luck and hope to hear something postive you have done for yourself! AK.
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