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writes:I was a huge jerk and broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years back in July. Literally 24hrs later I realized I made a huge mistake, but was stupid (again) and took my friends advice to let him come to me. At first in August he sort of did and told me that he just needed a little time to think, but since then, I have had 6 months of him treating me like dirt, sleeping with me and not telling me about the other girls he sleeps with, ignoring me and then coming back. Last week he finally decided to not speak to me anymore. I know he has treated me like crap, (I still think I might deserve this for the way I treated him at one point)but I am so in love with this person, and I fought so hard to win him back over the past few months, now that it really is done, I am hurt and sad and miserable like I have never been before. I don't know how to deal with this or to stop caring because I held on for too long. What can I do so that I can still function in my life and finally get over him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): Nobody deserves to be treat like crap. You finished with him and you got back together, maybe this is his way of punishing you. Well, if it is then i suggest you get rid of him now, and leave it that way. You don't have to beat yourself up about finishing with him and you certainly don't have to be treat like this either. Have a talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel and put him in the picture but if things don't improve then i would walk away. Don't take him back and find someone else.
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