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female
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writes:Hi everyone. There's a guy at my uni who I really fancy and we've been getting closer lately. We sit together in classes, chat on msn nearly every evening and we're going to go on a date next week to get some coffee. My question is how do I play this? I really like this guy and don't want to mess it up by being ovely keen or going to fast. What are the do's and don't of dating? It sounds stupid, but I want to know. Should I be flirty with him How soon is too soon for a first kiss? Just little things like that! I'm not a virgin and have had a bit of experience with sex, which although I don't regret, I want this one to be different. I feel like I've done the one night stand thing, and it was great, but now I want something more meaningful. Advice? I'm seeing him in the morningthen he's going away for the weekend, back on Sunday evening.
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (28 November 2008):
It seems to me you've got the basics down and are doing everything right so far. Just be yourself, go slow, lean back and maybe let him pursue you a bit. Guys always like that.
I know you really like him, but just keep a little perspective that you don't really know him that well yet... so perhaps the guy you really like right now is mainly the "idea" of him you have. Find out who he REALLY is before you get carried away.
Wouldn't you want him to do the same? Get to know the real you instead of who he imagines or wants you to be?
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