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writes:I hope you guys don't mind long reads and I warn you I am very detailed with these types of questions so that I can get the best information.So I was kind of new to this church and nobody really knew me that well. One day we were sitting there at the table and everyone was eating. I got done eating and I was just sitting there wandering in my own thoughts. Then something made me look up and I saw her staring at me and we sat there staring at each for three or so seconds. At that point I almost said something but instead of saying anything I decided to see how long the stare would last before she would say something. That was me being a troll and just kind of curious at the same time. I think that moment may have been more out of arkwardness and the fact that I did not say anything when she may have expected me to. Anyways she started to smile and then she asked me "What grade are you in?".So another time we were staying at a building somewhere for a week and we were waiting in the hall to get our luggage. We were all just standing there against walls and some of us were talking to each other. But I was just standing there by myself for no particular reason other than I did not really know the people that well and had nothing to talk about. I have been known to be shy and reserved throughout my life. So at some point during that time she turned around and stared at me twice. She was smiling and kind of chuckling. I don't know why I didn't go up to her and start talking but I just stood there for some reason. At some other point she seemed like she was flirting or just being playful. But it seemed as though she was flirting with me and some other guy. So the church leaders are having a meeting right and we are sitting there with just the three of us kids in the sanctuary. She was sitting there listening to music and she seemed pretty happy. So me and this other guy were talking next to her while she was listening to music and at some point she started asking me about clothes. She asked me if I would like to try on her shoes and she asked me if I would want to wear the type of jeans she was wearing. (Don't know what type of jeans though, she just pointed at the jeans she was wearing at the time) and she asked me if I ever heard/been to Platos (a clothing store). I said no but she started talking about how when she went to another store she had to pay 20 dollars (I think for 1 pair of jeans) and that when she went to Platos it was only 6 dollars. She said that my shirt was too big for me (which it was and I'll admitt it). She told me that she needed to take me shopping. She then asked whether I wear V necks or not and I said no. But then she asked the other guy and he said no. She asked why and he said that he just didn't like wearing them. She then asked "You don't like showing chest?" and I was caught off gaurd by that question. When the guy next to us came in earlier and thought he heard her say she did not like V necks, he was like "You don't like V necks?" and she said "No I love V necks". At some point she also randomly put her hand on my knee and the other guys knee at different times while singing. She also put her hand on my arm without saying anything and without singing and started sliding he rfinger across the top and bottom of my arm and pulled her arm away. Afterwards the other guy said she did that alot. Was she just being playful then?At a concert we were sitting there before it started and I was directly behind her and her two friends. I was noticing atfer they started talking to each other each one of her friends looked behind at me. At one point I was staring in at the back of the head of one of her friends and I was in my own thoughts not paying attention when all of the sudden he looked behind at me and turned back because he saw me looking in his direction. He had his hand on his face I think out of arkwardness. Then her other friend looked behind her and I think at me and she stared behind her for a few seconds and then turned back. Later, her friend next to her turned around and said to me randomly out of the blue that so and so (the girl that I think is flirting with me) doesn't like me. They were all looking at me at this point and I can hear her something but I couldn't hear what she said exactly because the noise was too loud.
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reader, chaijam  +, writes (25 August 2012):
Boy, you need to stop over-analysing this! I bet you've gone over it all a thousand times in your head.
The truth is that there's only one person who can tell you if she's interested in you - and it's her!
Ask her to hang out one on one and have a proper conversation! Try not to sit there staring at each other and counting the seconds between glances. Get to know each other and find out what you have in common and see where it goes from there. Maybe tell her you're interested in her and ask if she feels the same, if you're up for it.
All the best,
J
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (24 August 2012):
 I am not sure why all of the details really matter. If this girl is being friendly and polite to you, then why not make a move? Ask her out to grab a bit to eat or go see a movie. I think sometimes we dwell more on these situations when we should just take action. You don't to sit and analyze whether you should talk to the girl and get to know her. Just do it. If it works out to be something more then that is great.
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