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Is there too much going against us?

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Question - (9 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2009)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am 25 dating a 36 year old woman. The attraction is always there, but I am slowly getting past all the other factors. She had a kid, the age difference of course, and the social stigma of "cradle robbing". Do you think it’s ok? Do you think it can be good for both of us?

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A female reader, Tine United Kingdom +, writes (10 November 2009):

Tine agony auntpersonally i think that you are listening too much to what other people are saying about your relationship. To be fair there are 2 people in your relationship, both you and your partner. Even if there is a big age difference, as long as you are both consenting adults you should be old enough to make your own decisions.

think to yourself, do you love spending time with this person? Are you attracted to them? Can you see yourselves growing old and happy together? regardless of whether or not this person already has a child, you both have made it this far already. Why should you back out on other peoples opinions?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (10 November 2009):

Danielepew agony auntYes, it could be, if you both work on the relationship. I mean BOTH.

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