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Advice needed! Can our marriage be saved?

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Question - (9 November 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female age , anonymous writes:

I met and fell in love with a man 15 years younger, I was married at that time, but unhappy, i also had 6 children under the age of 21. I eventually divorced and lived and ended up marrying my much younger man. We have been together for 20 years, he is now 45 and i am 60 and he wants to seperate. It took a number of years for my children to accept him and i have many grandchildren now. We seldom have sex and when we do, it could be with a stranger, he no longer kisses me, materially he is good to me and my family, emotionally we are miles apart. When a couple seldomly has sex is that I sign it is falling apart?

I would do anything to save our realtionship and I wanted to have councilling together but he refused. I no longer know what to do, my friends tell me to leave, but i still love him and don't want to leave him, as far as i know he hasn't had any extramarital sex. We have sex very rarely as for making love that no longer happens, it's just an act for me and probably for him as well.

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