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Is there anything I can do?

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Question - (26 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I've been dating a really great guy for two and half years now, he has a girlfriend, he say's were just friends but sometimes i feel like I'm getting mixed signals from him, sometimes i think he wants more then just a friendship, i know that i would like it to become more than a friendship but there is the girlfriend, so what do i do? or is there anything i can do?

Squeek

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2010):

So great he has a girlfriend. Sorry, you don't stand a chance. I think you're friends and that's it.

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A female reader, Blondiebrooke69 United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

No u cant ...he obviously has a girlfriend who he probably loves and obviously wont leave ....i mean r u even going on dates and kissing this guy...y his he so clear that u are friends and u dont get it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010):

i agree with the other posters but just to add... its wrong. I would never want a girl to step between me and my relationship with a partner- so why would I ever do that to someone else? It is just common respect. Back off.

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A female reader, amanda_anne87 United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

I'm sorry hun, but if he has a girlfriend and hasn't left her in 2 years, then he's just using you. He's not the kind of guy you want in your life. How many other girls does he have secretly on the side??

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

Asexy agony auntIf he has a girlfriend and you two are "just friends" then you're not dating. Even if he SEEMS to want more, you shouldn't want any part of this. If he'll cheat WITH you, he'll cheat ON you too.

Because you obviously have feelings for him you should avoid him until they go away. That leaves you free to fall for someone who can love you back.

Good luck.

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