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writes:hi..i need an advice.i like this girl and become a friend since last year.i really like her.but i make a mistake.a big mistake..i too needy,oversensitive and emotional.this is what she said to me..now she hates me..she tell me please don't disturb her anymore..i really love her and want try my best to win her heart.can i still have chance?should i start over again?i want to redeem my mistake.how can i do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Zanie  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Ouch. I dont know. To be honest, once a guy is too clingy, it turns me off completely. A girl wants a protector. Yeah we like some sensitivity but overall we want a person who is going to take care of us, defend us, and who is not going to cry over spilt milk. You unfortunately, let her see that emotional side too soon. If she asked you not to bother her anymore, she may have meant it.
However, for your heart's sake. If you wish to give it one more try, then I would call her and tell her that you just want to be friends. You'll have to start from scratch.
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reader, Blondiebrooke69 +, writes (26 May 2010):
This is a tricky question...i personally had a boyfriend who was super clingy and dropped his friends all the time to be around me and it was sooo annoying. MY ADVICE let her be for a little while and then call her up and explain that u like her alot and u wanna 2nd chance ....idk the girl maybe she will but SECOND TIME AROUND SPeND TIME WITH UR FRIENDS AND LET HER HAVE HER TIME WITH HERS and take it slow dont be super pushy about hanging out everyday cuz then she'll just be sick of u and u wont get a third chance....well good luck!
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