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Is there an unobtrusive way to get my girl to give me a BJ?

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Question - (10 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

During foreplay, my girlfriend will often very briefly put the head of my penis into her mouth, but never for long. she's told me before that she doesn't like giving head but that she thinks its because of the way she feels about the guy she did it with before.

is there an unobtrusive way to suggest to her to try it? i love my girl, and i don't want to be with anyone else. but you know, i like head too, and i think that she can enjoy it as well.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

well if she doesn't want to then you can't and shouldn't force the issue. i'm sure she wouldn't make you do something you didn't like so you should think about her feelings.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi, i used to feel the same. I was forced into doing sexual things with a man when i was just 12. You should listen to her, and if she says she doesnt want to give you a bj she means it. Do not try and change her mind, as she has most likely already made it. If you cant live with out a bj then she isnt the right girl for you.. Mail me if u want to talk x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

Hey, if your girlfriend doesn't want to give u a bj then that's her choice you can't force her, talk to her how you feel about it and see if you can come to any agreements.

GOOD LUCK

JESS XXXX

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A female reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

BEEN THERE DONE IT agony auntHi honey

She has done it in her previous relationship I don't know what went wrong maybe she doesn't like the thought of a male ejaculting but is happy to do it up until that point???

You need to ask her what went wrong and ensure her you are loving gentle and understanding, don't pressure her into it she is trying slowly so give her time and I am sure things will sort themselves out

Good luck

Love Donna

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (10 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI think you should not put pressure on her. She will know when she's ready. Wait.

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