A
male
age
30-35,
*rendan
writes:Hey i thought id give u some news - I met this reali kool and hot girl. But she was reali trashed so she didnt reali remember anything. but we had a reali kool conversation. Anyway, by odd coincidence, my friends from high school happened to meet her that night elsewhere as well. So we started talking on facebook, and eventually we organised to see each other next saturday. which we did. We hooked up briefly. I pulled awat at first, and its one of the few things she remembered from that night. And in her words 'it broke her heart in two' and she didnt speak to me for about 5 minutes at the time. But then left me because i think another girl came up to talk to me.Anywho, she texted next day saying shes so sorry that she gets so drunk and she was reali sorry..One thing to understand here, is she is reali wild. But at heart, i think she seeks love and care. Thats wat ive determined talking to her. And one thing that struck me, was her awesome personality.Anywho we talked, and i asked if she was "genuinely interested in seeing me? Or if its not gonna go past random drunken hook ups then let me know..'she sed she wants to, and she doesnt lead people on..anyway we had a good discussion on msn, and i obviously the charming person i am, told her nice things, along with being a flirty jerk kinda, she sed she thinks im a rare guy, and whos legit.So yeah i dont know how to really take it from here, mostly due to the fact that im not sure if theres a foundation for something here..Tell me of your opinion, if you so kindly will :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 October 2009):
 What's the link, Brendan?
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reader, brendan +, writes (30 October 2009):
brendan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah you guys should look at my other question i put up recently, dealing with the same girl..
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 October 2009):
Sorry, that was my girlfriend "A". She is totally trustworthy (all though can't spell a DAMN (hah! Sorry, love.) Anyway, here is my (Tasteo'India's) advice.p /
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I didn't read this as "foundation" advice, so thank you Moderator. Brendan, I do think this is solid foundation to ask her out on a date and see where this goes. Be gutsy, be bold and ask her out. Try a date or two, or three and see how you're feeling and how she seems and give her a chance to show you how awesome she is. But seriously, if she seems at all needy or questionable and if you feel like any part of her NOW will change over time, DON'T RELY ON THAT! Don't assume she'll change. Assume she'll be the same girl you t hough she was. (Vigorous headshaking from the gals.)p /
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Again, I can't judge, because me and my girlfriends have been out drinking tonight. Thank God for Tuesdays! p /
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): total foundatin, just be careful. girls who party ca n be trouble, espesialy if theyre they kind who get so drunk they cant remember the next morning! in my experience they are the kind who cheat on you. but go for it and see what happens. you never know until you try!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 Well it sounds like there is foundation there. Take it slow and get to know her. Take her on dates and treat her with care.
Good Luck!
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