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writes: So me and my boyfriend (im 16 hes 18) have been together for about 4 months now. we have sex a lot, every weekend and sometimes during the week, and almost always more than once on these days. i am not on the pill and we dont use condoms, he just pulls out. please dont give me a lecture tho. i know we should be, we jus dont. so i was supposed to get my period about 3 days ago. i dontt rly have any symptoms of pregnancy, aside from my boobs and nipples hurting. i know he has never actually cum inside me, and i havent rly been worried about being pregnant or missing my period as i know stressing about it can delay your period. but jus this morning, i was in the shower and i thought my boobs were bigger than normal. plus theyre sore. so do u think im pregnant or are my boobs just getting bigger on their own? what do u think? thanks in advancee.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 I am resisting giving you a mini-lecture but I do have to say one thing - you are playing a risky game! Even though he pulls out, pre-cum contains sperm (sometimes even more sperm than his actual ejaculation contains!) so each time you are having sex sperm are released inside you, you just dont notice pre-cum because there is only tiny amounts of it! And I hope you have both been tested for STD's too?
If you think you are old enough and mature enough to be having sex then you must be able to handle the consequences. You are clearly aware that unprotected sex makes babies, so each time you have sex you need to be aware that you could end up pregnant. "We just dont" is not a good excuse - going to the doctor to get free birth control is far easier than being pregnant surely?!
Anyway, swollen and sore boobs are not really indicators of pregnancy so early on, it is more a symptom of your period being on its way. Its just part of PMS. But seen as you are having unprotected sex there is always a chance of you getting pregnant, so if your period has still not arrived in about 4 or 5 days then you need to take a pregnancy test.
I hope this helps!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 Well, I'll tell you right now that at this stage of the game, the boobs would be the biggest indicator. But, don't rely on them - perhaps this is just a late period and the breasts are swelling nonetheless?
Anyway, this is not something (as Satin pointed out), that anybody could tell you, especially online. Maybe if we were a doctor and you were the patient, perhaps... but, since that's not the case, the best we can do is to encourage you to buy a pregnancy test to give you answers and peace of mind. Pulling out is a risky chance, and there's a chance you could be pregnant. I wouldn't admonish you, not at all. But I'll be real in saying that there's a chance.
Good luck, and if you're not - go to the gyno and put yourself on the pill or some other birth control and you won't have to worry about this until you want to!!
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