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Is she too close to her brother?

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Question - (1 November 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2011)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Is this strange or am I just being too sensitive? My wife and her brother are a little too close in my opinion. He is always touching her, putting his hands on her, they watch tv with their arms around each other, they used to share an apartment and because it was a studio they chose to sleep in one bed instead of her on the couch or visa versa. She would remark how he would often sleep with his arms across her or right up next to her, they dress the same, he won't order food without asking her her opinion, she does everything for him, and even wants him to study the same major as her and work with her in her field of study, which is not his first choice. We recently attended a dance together and the two of them danced suggestively all night, kinda new style dirty dancing, grinding thing. Just weird all round. They are Turkish and are 21 and 22 years old. Am I just feeling weird for no reason? We are in a serious relationship but...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011):

no, thats not,in my opinion, normal. if it wasnt her brother, would you be ok with it?.. most likely not, therefore its not ok in this situation either. you should talk to her about it.. have you tried to discuss this with her?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (2 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwas this a mail order bride kind of thing?

she is 21 you are more than double her age...

she is turkish you are posting from USA....

I'll bet two months mortgage it's NOT her brother.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (2 November 2011):

CindyCares agony auntYou are a 51 to 59 female with a 22 y.o. wife ? Very unusual. Is it a same sex marriage ? Are you actually married, or are you just in a relationship ?

...Or are you trolling and sharing with us your incest fantasies ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2011):

my guess is he's not really her brother, and she's lying to you on that as an excuse to continue to spend time with him even though she's married to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2011):

You sure he's really her brother?

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A male reader, lakers_lover09 United States +, writes (2 November 2011):

This is creepin me out lol the only thing I can think of is maybe in their cutlture this can be normal, or maybe they were attached to the hip as kids and have no idea that its creepy brcause they spent their childhood doing this without being confronted. Is it something u can deal with? If so, cudos! If not... Well he has to go (which Is understandable here)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2011):

yes this is weird. Did they grow up together?

Realize also that your wife is less than half your age. In fact she's young enough to be your daughter. She may be wanting to be with someone who's more her own age. Sorry it's not your fault, but just wanted to point that out.

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