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writes:When we're together he seems like he's crazy about me and always tells me he loves me... We've been together for two months and he really seems to care about me...I don't think he's only thinking about having sex with me, since he really seems to respect what I want: one time he touched my butt, I stopped him and he apologized for doing it, he was worried that he might have upset me and said that he won't do it again until I give him permission...Everything about him and the way he behaves towards me seems perfect except for what I said in the question... Let's say I kind of understand the not calling part, since I also dislike talking on the phone... But I'm afraid that he's avoiding to say 'I love you' when his friends are around, which is not normal... What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Most young guys wouldn't be caught dead saying I love you over the phone to there girlfriend when there mates are around. That's guys for you, he doesn't want them to start slagging him and giving him a hard time, especially since the both of you have only been together 2 months. It is still early days in the relationship. You need to stop looking for things that are wrong with the relationship and just enjoy what you have. It is how he acts that shows you he loves you, not by his words.
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Why is it not normal to not say i love you when his mates are around. Hes a guy and when with his mates he doesn,t want to look loved up. They might take serious fun out of him. He may find this to difficult to feal with. I agree stop focusing on what you think is normal,everyone is different.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 I think you ought to forget trying to figure out what is "normal".....
This guy sounds like he is doing a great job keeping YOUR interest alive... AND, he's doing just about all the right things that lead to him getting you to believe that it's imperative that you go to bed with him (put out) in order to keep HIS interest alive....
Good luck...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 November 2011):
 I have learned that men can TELL me they love me from now till the cows come home but until they SHOW me they love me it's just hollow words....
why is it not normal to avoid saying "I love you" when his friends are around???
my man goes MONTHS and MONTHS and never says "i love you"
but he does. why do the words mean more than his actions?
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