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*nskydu
writes:I have been on and off with this girl for over 2 years. I love her with all my heart. This girl was my first love so maybe thats why I have so many feelings for her. She is very selfish and flirtatious. I am 24 and she is 20 and maybe its because the age gap she is the way she is. I try to talk to her about the future because we both live in differant states and I tell her I cant live where she is from because of job oppertunities where I am from. She gives me no confidence and really has become less loving as the realationship has went on through the 2 years, she also gives me no hope for the future and I try to give her praise, compliments, assurance and everything a good guy should give her. She tells me that she does not see anyone else but me in her future but how can I believe her??? The scary thing is I am at school right now where she has the chance to be with me and grow but she makes no effort to put everything she has into us. Then when I tell her I dont think it will work and I think we both should move on she starts crying and I feel guilty because I love her and keep on trying to work things out. She has a 1 and half years left of school until she graduates so we will have been in a long distance relationship for over a year. How can this relationshp work over 350 miles apart? Do you think that its worth sticking around for when I put everything I've got into something that gives me so much stress because of her flirtatious ways and lack of confidence??? Someone please help me out and tell me what you think I should do.
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reader, anskydu +, writes (10 October 2007):
anskydu is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks alot guys, that was very helpful. I just need to let time take its course and go from there. It sucks to be alone but I guess it will build character.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Sounds like this relationship is very one sided, and if you are really honest with yourself as much as you love her do you want to be in a relationship like that?
With the problems that there are already i don't think the distance is going to help matters so maybe it's time you moved on, enjoy yourself for a bit with no pressures of a relationship.
Take care.xx.
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