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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 absolutely not everyone fancies someone else at some stage in their life. This is perfectly normal but once you leave it at fancying her and dont take it any further.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH!!At the end of the day you are only human with feelings!! Everyone fancies some that they shouldn't at some stage in their life!! As long as you don't act on it, your ok!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Fancy'g them is okay to a point. Yes you can't help but feel attrackted, but i think the more you think about this other woman the more you are going to want to take action. So stop liking her by picking up another hobby, meet some single nice gal. There are plenty, just and u and everyone won't get hurt in the end. Good luck =)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 Everyone fancies someone innappropriate under the wrong circumstances from time to time, it's human nature and you can't help who you are attracted to. You can control your actions, however. Don't act on this. Don't forget the "Thou Shalt Not Covet" rule - it has always been a problem for human nature and that's why they threw in that very important guideline... Take Care and Be Good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): you look but don't touch whats not yours........
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reader, Farris  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 I agree with the other answers. So long as you don't take any action on these feelings then it's fine.
You should actively try to put your feelings elsewhere, before you feel like you want to take any actions though.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Just so long as it only stays at a fancy you are ok, but take it any further and that is so out of order. Get out there and find someone who is single and totally unattached in any way and fancy them!!
Take care
xx
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reader, fishfood +, writes (7 March 2007):
 I agree with CD; fancying someone is fine as we cant help who we are attracted to but it becomes wrong when you act on those feelings by either telling them or their partner, and/or openly flirting with them, as it can put the person who is out of limits in a difficult position and may create problems within their relationship.xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 March 2007):
 Fancying is fine but to act on those feelings would be wrong.
CD
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