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Is it wrong for a guy to get turned on by women's breasts?

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Question - (7 February 2012) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2012)
A male South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am getting a bit confused here but its I can't just help it. Is it wrong for a guy to be attracted and get turned on by woman's breasts?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2012):

Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you spend more time looking at a girls eyes than her breasts.

I have to say though OP, there is nothing sexy about a woman breastfeeding.

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A male reader, Dodds Kenya +, writes (8 February 2012):

Dodds agony auntIt's only creepy when you leer, linger and stare when infact you should be talking and getting to know her. Don't fight your nature but at the same time don't make it so blatant that that's the only thing that interests you about a woman

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A male reader, Dodds Kenya +, writes (7 February 2012):

Dodds agony auntPerfectly normal!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012):

Youre kidding me right??? What normal heterosexual guy isn't??

I know I am!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012):

Female breasts are like a biological stats sheet in some ways...

Their symmetry (left and right) tells you about both the state her spinal column is in (i.e. scoliotic or not) as well as her general development during childhood plus immune system.

Their size (in proportion to the rest of her body) tells you about how much curve there is in her spine and about how much body fat her body is choosing to deposit there. This--in contrast to belly fat--says something about her stress level in general (more stress -- more BELLY fat) as well as probably fecundity (ability to reproduce and often sexual interest).

Their shape (along with that of the nipple and areola) is informative of her biological age. That includes starting puberty through to adulthood (you can read about Tanner stages elsewhere) as well as whether she's menopausal or not.

Additionally, their size during sex increases with arousal and contact with the nipple can release the hormone oxytocin which helps her feel more attached to you. So, you can actually help gauge a woman's sexual interest in bed if you are paying attention through her breasts (and increase it).

So, as long as you remember that the breasts are only part of a woman and while your eyes are pointed toward them you keep your ears open to what she's saying...

Probably not a bad thing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012):

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I just that breasts are the main thing that I look at when I start get interested in any girl, and everytime when I fantasies about any woman I like I think of her breasts, and utilizing them, and when I come across mother breastfeeding her baby wherever I go.. I don't even wanna explain. I don't know is this some kind of obsession or what? why am I drown to breasts?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012):

Only if you talk only to a womans breasts not to her, only if you only see her as a pair of breasts

I would say 99.9% of hetrosexual males get turned on by them - perfectly normal

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2012):

Tom Obler  agony auntNo, not at all. Some like legs, feet, hair, bottom etc. Not a problem.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntNot wrong at all.. why would you think it wrong?

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