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anonymous
writes: Hi people,Just found out my partner is 4 weeks pregnant.I was just researching about tips for fathering, I researched about males thoughts on pregnancy and alot of it is negative! Some of them say my husband is not excited about our pregnancy and that and I don't want to feel like a idiot because I'm so excited that my partner is pregnant. I just can't wait till it comes and when we go shopping soon for clothes, bottles, and everything. We have 8 months to go and I just can't wait!!Am I weird being excited? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Love is all you need +, writes (3 August 2009):
No, your just really looking forward to being a DADDY! and having your own little son or daughter to take care of. Its natural the babies a part of you, i know i would be extatic about having a baby. Congratulations!!! and good luck looking forcute little aby outfits and cribs and toys and all. i probably got you more excited but i am too and its not even my baby or anyone i know! good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): not weird at all, its natural. congratulations. nice to see your excited and so you should be because you are going to feel like the proudest person in the world once you see your babys face for the first time.
your girlfriend will be overjoyed at the excitement you have, what a great person you are.
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (3 August 2009):
I believe CONGRATULATIONS are in order.
And NO you are not weird. Babies are a priceless gift from God. And create awsome experiences in life and abundant joy.
Enjoy being a new Daddy!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 August 2009):
Nah, many of these guys were not ready to be dads and just see a kid as a 20 year commitment.
If they just see a kid as a tie that will stop them going on holiday and keep them up all night then of course they are going to be not excited.
If you planned this and planned to spend the next 20 years with your partner and are ready to settle down and spend your cash on babies rather than football then that's great!
Be as excited as you can. She is going to need you more than ever as she sees her body getting all stretched out and swollen.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): congratulations your girlfriend is very lucky to have someone so excited and supportive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): its wonderfull your so happy shes pregnant and congratulations! your not weird its lovely, how nice for your partner to have some one to share all the excitment with, get involved as much as you can, be part of everything!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (3 August 2009):
You are very happy for becoming a father. Why should that be considered weird?
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