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anonymous
writes:Could this guy have liked me? I went to a pub , and he looked at me a few times. When my friend, who was sat next to me was talking, he leaned sideways to look at me a couple of times (he was sat on another table and my friend was blocking his view some of the time because of how she was sat) , but the strange thing was, when he left, he shook hands with my friends, but didnt shake mine. I thought either he might have liked me but been too shy to shake hands with me, or maybe he had spoken to them more. They all went outside to smoke, but i dont smoke, so they could have been talking then. I was sat on my own for some of the time when my friends were outside smoking, and he was still in the room, so i thought he might have come over but he didnt. One of his friends asked me if one of the men i was with was my boyfriend, and i said he wasnt. I was disappointed when he and his friends left, as they left earlier than us (i only saw them in there for about an hour, and it was at the start of the night), and i thought he might have tried to speak to me. I'm wondering if i'll ever see him again. I might do because he was in my local pub.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): Hi.Thanks for your replies. First of all, i'm usually shy when i first meet guys, so i felt funny about approaching him. I'm regretting not going over to him, especially during the moment where i was sat on my own, but i think i also felt intimidated because his two male friends were sat with him at the time too. Looking back, i could have also gone to the bar at the same time as him and tried talking to him then. My uncle was also out with me, and, i dont mind going out for a drink with him, but i sometimes feel funny about talking to guys in front of him, probably just because he is family, you know ?. One of my female friends, said, after he left, that she had seen him before in another pub that's close to where i live too, although it's further away than the one i saw him in, so it seems as if he might live in the area. I also though that maybe i should have said something as he was leaving, but i think i was just taken aback that he and his friends left so early, and that he shook hands with my friends but not me .
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (8 November 2010):
 Its amazing how many women seem to think that if guys don't approach that they're "just not that into you"...
What a load of sh*t!
Guys can be really into you but you might not be sending off enough signs that you are interested in him- (some need more assurance that they won't get shot down than others). Some guys will NEVER approach- regardless of how much they like a girl or how many signs she's sending him. This ain't the 1950's anymore, why didn't you approach him if you were that interested in him??
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (8 November 2010):
 I looked at a woman when I was shopping in Tesco yesterday. She looked at me too. Is it possible she could have liked me?
I might go back to the store at the same time next weeek. I might get to look at her, looking at me!
On the train on the way to work tomorrow, I'm going to wear shades, as I dont want to look at a woman in case she thinks I like her.
Oh dear, whatever next?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): generally I think if a guy really likes a girl he WILL talk to her. While, in my opinion, that is the general standard, nothing in life is black and white. So it is possible that he thought you were cute but maybe he didn't talk to you because he has a girlfriend. It is also possible that perhaps he felt shy. It is also possible that he just wasn't interested.
Maybe you will see him again. If he does the same and just checks you out a couple of times in the span of an hour, doesn't talk to you, and then just leaves the bar, then I think it is safe to say he is not that interested for whatever reason.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (8 November 2010):
 Didn't you post this same question last week?? Why again now? Did you not get any responses?
Anyway, the truth is this man DIDN'T approach you when he had the chance so he couldn't have been all that interested.
Maybe you'll see him there again, maybe you won't. I wouldn't put any more stock in it if I were you.......hardly worth it with so very little to go on.
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