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writes: me and my bf have sex usually 4 times a week, but almost every time it is more than once a day in those 4 days, so its more like 7 or 8 times a week. i get my period fairly regularly. we do not use condoms or any sort of birth control. he just pulls out. yet every time we have sex, he comes closer and closer to finishing inside of me.. he releases on my inner thighs and on my lower back and in other places, that im not worried about getting pregnant from.. but for the past couple months, i keep thinking im pregnant! i get my period every time but i just cant help thinking it! im supposed to get my period in about a week, and we have been having sex very frequently for the past 2 weeks. do u think i have to worry about pregnancy... even tho i havent gotten pregnant all these other times??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): I agree with all the other advice. You are completely reckless and unbelievably immature. Statistically speaking, there's ABSOLUTELY no reason that the probability of getting pregnant changes between times you have sex. Just because you have sex once and don't get pregnant, or 50 times and don't get pregnant, there's still the same chance every time that you could be.You ARE going to get pregnant this way. I cannot BELIEVE how many times we see this type of question here where people think that pulling out works. It's not effective. I honestly don't even know who invented the damn method and told everyone it would work. I've lost faith in our schools and parents at this point - as well as teenagers who don't take the time, or have the maturity, to look things up for themselves. They can find all the free porn they want while avoiding all parental controls, but they can't take the time to look up how to NOT get pregnant?That being said, YES, you should be incredibly worried about getting pregnant. It's quite possible you're pregnant right now. Go look through other questions on this site (search using keywords: unprotected sex, birth control, pregnancy, pulling out, etc). You'll learn something (since obviously you're starting with nothing, learning something should be pretty simple). Good luck, and I wish the best for you.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Do you think of yourself as a sensible person? Are you looking to get yelled at for being so cavalier with your health and your future? Have you prepared for a baby? Are you prepared to learn that you can't have a baby because of a hidden infection? Have you told your parents that you're having unprotected sex?
If you answer "yes" to those questions, then you're fine. If you answer "no" perhaps it's time to see your gynecologist and stop pretending that if you cross you fingers and wish hard enough, teen pregnancy and an STD won't happen to you.
I'm shaking my head here at how naive you are, sorry hon, but you're a long way from mature. You're like the classic example of the girl who winds up saying, "but I thought it couldn't happen to meeeee!" Please do your parents a favor, and ask to see the gynecologist.
Take care.
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reader, jaundice  +, writes (6 October 2009):
Yes Yes an Yes. Due to this stupid behaviour I now have two children. Simple as that.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Just because you're lucky 100 times doesn't mean you're going to be lucky on the 101st time.
Even though he's pulling out, pre-cum still contains sperm and can still get you pregnant. Either he needs to start using condoms, or you need to go on the birth control pill, or preferably both. So far, you've been extremely lucky, but you WILL get pregnant (not just might, WILL) if you keep having unprotected sex for long enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): You've just been lucky so far! Ever heard of Russian Roulette? Not every chamber is a blank.....
Now, even if he pulls out in time (and, as you say, he is leaving it ever later) he will have had pre-cum, which contains viable sperm. That will do it. If you don't want a pregnancy, you know what to do.
And, in accord with what most Aunties and Uncles say on here, use at least two RELIABLE forms of contraception; hormonal (the pill or variant) and physical (a condom).
Even safer still, but in no way 100%, add a spermicide.
Absolutely NOTHING except no sex is 100% safe.
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