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reader, Solurius11 +, writes (1 January 2021):
 How old are you? How old is your best friend? Erotic pictures, however, they are shared, can and most assuredly will be posted online for everyone to see. Are you comfortable with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2020): did your friend ask to see them? If not then no it's very bad thing to do. If he/she did ask to see them then if you're comfortable with it and it's legal and you're an adult, and understand the risks of it being shared then i guess it's up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2020): Why would "friends" be exchanging nude and erotic photos?
You'll end-up back here with another story about how your pics were sent over the internet without your permission. Do you want those pics shared with Lottie, Dottie, and everybody?
Dumbest move ever, if not entirely inappropriate!!!
Keep pics of your junk to yourself. If you decide to become more than friends, live-showings in a private-setting should be more than enough. People share far too much on the internet! Forgetting they have jobs, families, or could marry someone other than that person you sent them to. They could suddenly reappear out of nowhere online to shock your girlfriend, fiancé, or your new wife! If you're gay, your new boyfriend, or husband. They could reappear anywhere anytime!
What if you become enemies and you're blackmailed? Once they have them, they won't delete them, and won't give them back! Don't think just because your face isn't in them you won't be recognized, all they have to do is add your photo next to them! Phones get lost, hacked, or stolen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2020): Are the pictures of you? One of my coworkers shared a nude picture with her boyfriend (they work for the same company). They broke up and the ex-boyfriend got angry, showed the picture to their boss and she got fired (her work uniform was in the picture).
There are plenty of horror stories of people who shared "nude and erotic photos" with other people. Look it up online to read it yourself.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (9 October 2020):
 This post raises more questions than answers. Who are the photos of? How "erotic" are they? Does your friend WANT to share them? Do YOU want to share them? How much do your trust your friend?
Remember, once photos are "out there", you have no control over where they might end up. Would you want your employer or family to see them?
Without more information, it is difficult to advise, but, regardless, I would advise great caution - for your own safety.
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 October 2020):
 There is not really a lot to go on in this post.
Are the pictures of yourself, or someone you know?.
Or are the pictures just randoms downloaded from the internet?.
Either way, I would say its a stupid idea.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 October 2020):
 Who's photos are you wanting to share?
And IF they are your own and his/hers... do you think it's really something that goes with a NON romantic and NON sexual relationship? Such as a friendship?
If the yare of you, are they picture you boss or mom would be OK seeing? Because reality is... if you put ANYTHING online or send over text, there is a possibility that it will be "out there" for all the World to see.
Lastly, if they are your own, DO you want these picture to "float" around out there, in case your "friend" isn't as "friendly" as you think and things goes side ways...
If these are not picture of yourselves... Don't you think your "friend" can find his/her own "naughty stuff"?
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reader, jls022 +, writes (9 October 2020):
Do you mean photos of each other? Or do you mean photos someone else has given/sent you that you want to show to your friend?
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (9 October 2020):
 I wouldn't say this is a smart thing to do. How much do you trust this friend? Is this someone who will keep them to themself? Or possibly hold onto the photos and use them to blackmail you or even worse? If you are exchanging the photos through the email I would say NO WAY. Once on the internet...ALWAYS on the internet.
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