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*nuckles03
writes:I want to know if I am going crazy or what??? My bf and I have been dating for a year now and we are so in love with each other we are always together, well 99% of the time. I have never been so happy with anyone in my life I left during last spring break and went to DR. And everything was okay I miss him of course but nothin out of the normal. And when I came back he left for about a week to go to some island and the same thing. Now my bf wants to got to ATL for W days for some business and it is tearing me apart I really want him to go so he can make some money but at the same time I don't want him to go bc I am goin to miss him way too much. He just found out today that he had to go and he let me know today as well and he leaves tomorrow I am crying and upset bc he is leaving. I miss him already this is his first trip away while we are living together. I don't know if this is normal or not. Am I am going crazy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Yo it's just a few days... relax!
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reader, xAx  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 The way you are feeling is normal. However, if your feelings control you then that would be wrong. You both need space to grow.
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 That's the way a lot of us feel on the inside, but you have to look at it as an opportunity to develop your sense of self. You are yourself and although the relationship gives you lots of positive feelings it is nice to explore the you that is you alone. I know it can be hard and scary but it is necessary for your personal development.
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reader, LinzyH +, writes (17 August 2010):
Hi Knuckles03,
This is completely normal. You will miss someone that you love when they go away. The first few days will be difficult but then you will start thinking about how many days left till he does come back.
Arrange a date to do something romantic for just the two of you when he's back. Make an arrangement to spend a couple of days together without the worries of work. This will help you look forward and focus on when he's back rather then him not being there.
Hope it works out.
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