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*uli
writes:When im going to have sex I only want my bfs penis to go half way in it feels good for me but when he tries to go all the way in omg it hurts is that normal??? i havent gone to a doctor to ask im shy can anyone help? please thank you :)
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 You might want to try the "spoons" position where you lie on your side with your back to him and he enters you from behind. The main thing to remember though is to RELAXXXX.
~Eve~
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reader, yuli +, writes (17 May 2011):
yuli is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat position is best good feeling for me and comftrable?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (17 May 2011):
Sex CAN hurt the first few times you have it but as time goes on the pain should decrease. It could be that your hymen isn't properly broken but I think personally it's because you're not relaxed.
The average female vagina is about 3 inches long. However it is extremely elastic and can stretch to accommodate almost any penis. Because it's so stretchy, it's kind of hard to say and varies amongst women. Here is a good guide: Unaroused: 3-5 inches deep Aroused: 5-7 inches deep Stretched to the max: 8-10 inches deep.
The main thing is to RELAX. If you tense up, waiting for him to enter you then it will be more painful. Take your time during love making, make sure there's lots of foreplay too, this will make you much wetter and just relaxxxxx and enjoy it.
~Eve~
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reader, yuli +, writes (17 May 2011):
yuli is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone :)!
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reader, yuli +, writes (16 May 2011):
yuli is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd yes its my first bf, my first time. i've tried it a long time ago I was going to have sex with some guy and he only popped it half I guess, because right away when he put it it in he popped it and I got of right away it hurted..is it normal that I like it half way? or any advice to feel comfortable so he can put it all the way please and thankyou.:)
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 You've heard the old adage,
" If it feels good, do it!" well the opposite is true if it doesn't feel good then don't do it. Pain and sex should be mutually exclusive terms. There should be nothing but pleasure in sex.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (16 May 2011):
 The likelihood is that his penis is nudging your cervix which can be very uncomfortable.
How long have you been having sex for? Is this your first sexual partner? Has it always hurt when having sex?
It could be so many reasons, you cant single it out from just the info you have provided
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): It does hurt to start with until the hymen breaks, at which time you may bleed. If it still hurts after that, yes, see your doctor.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 It could be possible that he hasn't completely broken your hymen.
The only way to know for sure is if you get it checked out by a doctor.
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