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writes:Me and my man been together for 8 months and that's both of our longest relationship. We're both 15 years old we don't know what to do about sex. I know he thinks we should just have sex because we love each other. He wants me to be his first and I want him to be mine also. He leaves me ideas like when we're on the phone he would tell me that we have been going out for a while should we just do it. He also gives me songs about sex saying that he loves me with all his heart he would love me to be his first. I do want him to be my first but is it too early? Reply to this Question
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reader, MattayBabay  +, writes (26 November 2008):
if you have to ask ... then its totally too early!
if you wonder about it at all even just the tiniest little bit- its definitely too early!
sex is a beautiful thing god created to be amazing and pleasurable! .. when its the right time to do it you should totally love and want each other and love and want sex and have absolutly NO DOUBTS at all about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): Aunts this girl presents as aged 15 (underage) and currently living in the USA. The age of consent in the UK may be 16, but in many parts of America, the age of consent is 18.
Yes babes, you are too young, sex changes things and your emotions are not fully developed at the moment. Many teenagers who have underage sex can actually dislike their partner and push them away. You may find you no longer do nice things together but only have sex. There is also the problem of pregnancy, and the problem of what will happen if your parents find out. Try to settle for kissing and cuddling, do other things, but wait until you are both ready and both older to have full sexual intercourse. It will be better, and you will both feel more relaxed. First time sex is rarely much fun, it hurts, and if your not ready, it can destroy your self-esteem and put pressure on your relationship. If the guy loves you, then he will wait. Plus I must warn you, even though he might be a virgin, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): your man?Isn't he just a boy?Stop reading so many romantic novels.Yes you are way too young to have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): The fact that you're questioning whether it's too early for you to be having sex proves that underneath you are not 100% sure about it, if the guy you're with feels that you should have sex because you're in love, remind him that if it's true love that you'll still be together for a while yet. Why not tell him that you want to wait until you're 16, after all it will then be legal and will also give you more time to decide whether or not it's really what you want. Hope this helps xx
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