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*hannonF
writes:My boyfriend likes to come in my mouth and have me swallow his semen. I'm ok with that...but we've been thinking of trying anal and I'm worried about how dangerous it is to do him orally after anal. Can I do it safely? Is it safe to swallow ?
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reader, babyface11o  +, writes (16 March 2013):
Well lets put is this way. MY wife and i have been together for 15 years, we have a great sexually relationship with a lot of variety. We have had anal almost as long. We went a little further by have anal sex, then when id come she would preform oral straight afterwards. Neither of us had any problems. So after almost 12 years we continue anal/oral without any problems with infections. We have anal or anal/oral at least once a week. My wife's bum was tight and after all these years she still is tight. We don't use condoms, but if your not sure, use condoms for anal then remove for your partner to preform oral. Then take it from there. Take care, have fun. Just be sure your partner is relaxed and not stressed before penetration and STOP if told to do so....
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reader, BigSis +, writes (12 October 2008):
 Note the 'original post date'....20th July **2007** Yeah?
But I will still add my bit because I can't resist it by saying;
What friggin' planet are you people from?!?
A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):
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"Sorry if I am missing something, but why use a condom during anal sex?"
WTF?!?!?! DER!
Another reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008):
QUOTE:
"dont use no condom with anal tht feels good and with oral suck it good but idk if its dangerous just do it and see wht happens ............. just lose control ...... girl"
DOUBLE WTF?!?!?
I'll tell you what - you two anonymous posters - why don't you try licking your toilet bowls clean instead of using antibacterial sprays or wipes or bleach? And while you're at it ...lick good and proper right under the rim too ......let yourselves go, what the heck --- have a party!!
Oh, and one more thing before I forget?....Get yourselves tested for aids soon after.
BigSis
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): dont use no condom with anal tht feels good and with oral suck it good but idk if its dangerous just do it and see wht happens ............. just lose control ...... girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Listen to the wise people on here, apart from one who missed everything that was said. If bacteria gets passed from anus to vagina it can cause horrendous problems with the ph level of the vagina, as with oral, very sore throat. It's a good practice for people who wants to be bacterial ridden and you will sharp know when the ph level changes, ya may feel liek never having sex again. My view? Stay away from dirty people.
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reader, jbunny08  +, writes (24 June 2008):
Oka all u have to do is just use a condom during anal and take it off then give him oral!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): First of all boyfriends, anal sex is against all we learned in sunday school. You should not be doing something a boy wants you to do, you said you're ok with that, but it seems to me as if you go along because this boy likes his fetish. I bet you anything you probably spend more times satisfying that boy's needs then thinking of what you really want for yourself. Anal sex is just wrong full of lots and lots of bacteria, that is where crap comes out from, and you will be putting that in your mouth so use your common sense and learn to say no thanks.
respect yourself because nobody else will. God Bless You!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): Some women would get extra filth values from doing this. only do it if you want to be really rude indeed. It is best to wash between acts
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): To answer the original question it is a bad idea. If you really want to do it a suggestion is to do anal then shower together (it continues the mood and makes sure that he gets clean) then do oral in the shower (this ensures that you get clean afterward and the heat helps to kill any loose sperm). As for the readers question as to why you should use a condom heres why: 1) if you have a cut in your anus you can get an std, virus, and/or infection 2)it helps the penis slide in and out causing less friction and 3)if any sperm flow down to your vagina there is a possiblity that you can get pregnant
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reader, pinkpeone +, writes (20 July 2007):
Because of the bacteria in your anus, rectum and intestines. You use a condom because it is safer and hygienic.
As everyone else stated.....do not have oral sex after anal sex unless your partner cleans himself first. You do not want to contract something like helicobacteur pylori!!!! If you do not know what that is, please google it!
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Sorry if I am missing something, but why use a condom during anal sex?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 I wouldnt suggest that at all you could get an infection or worse as there is so much bacteria in there! plus i hope u and your guy are planning on using a condom wen you do try anal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): I agree with everyone! Plus, eeeeew. Pretty gross don't you think? Why not give him oral BEFORE anal? Instead of after? It's safer AND more hygenic, a win-win situation! xxx
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reader, penta +, writes (20 July 2007):
 There are bacteria in your intestines that are safe for you ONLY if they stay there. Ingesting them (putting them into your mouth) can cause a NASTY stomach flu-like illness. Don't do oral right after anal.
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