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Is he really Straight?

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Question - (12 July 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *locktob writes:

Would a straight guy ever let a gay man give him head?

I have a friend that I grew up with, we have known each other for over 15 years. We don't see each other very often but every time we do I give him head. He says he likes girls. Is he really straight?

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A male reader, blocktob United States +, writes (14 July 2009):

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Again thank you all for responding to my situation. He is moving in this week. I will tell him how I feel this weekend. I hope I won't scare him away and lose his friendship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

tell him how you feel. That you it wouldn't be fair having him live with you because you have strong feelings for him and know they'll only getting stronger seeing him evry day in your flat. Hopefully this will push him to confess his true feelings for you or he'll realise he's wrong to accept the blow jobs when he's giving nothing in return.

Good luck mate i hope he finally realises your worth having a real relationship with

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A female reader, TheAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2009):

TheAgonyAunt agony auntI think you should tell him how you feel about the situation. Hopefully he will understand, but its up to you to decide whether or not to move in with him.

Hope this helps :)

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A male reader, blocktob United States +, writes (14 July 2009):

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Thank you all for taking the time to read and respond to my little situation. Just a little update: I spoke to him recently and he told me that he wants to move in with me. This might be a slight problem because I already have feelings for him, mainly because I have known him so long and I feel really confortable around him and he seems very comfortable around me too even down to the way he looks at me when he talks to me. I know if he moves in with me and we start spending even more time together I am going to really start catching serious feelings for him. I just wish I know how he really feels about me. What should I do? Should I let him move in, should I tell him what I think and how I feel?

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A female reader, 70times7 United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

Probably he's bi and enjoys the company of men, but leans straight to the point where he identifies himself as straight. In this case he'll probably only feel completely at peace in a relationship in the long term if it's with a lady.

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A male reader, dddddddd Australia +, writes (13 July 2009):

I think yes he could be straight. If he was giving you head I would say definitely bi or gay. Just about any guy likes getting head and if they are comfortable with it there are straight guys who will get head from gay guys, probably as it still feels good and is easier to get. Or maybe he is a bit bi to feel comfortable about it.

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A male reader, surferguy Australia +, writes (13 July 2009):

i think its more the fact he has always had feelings for you instead of being labelled gay bi or straight he just likes you alot and knows he can fulfill his desires by getting head off you... it will never change he is not in denial as he probably likes both sexes and is just afraid of ruining what the two of you have and of loosing what he may have with other partners guy or girl..

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A female reader, TheAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2009):

TheAgonyAunt agony auntIt sounds like he could be in denial here..

If he wasn't attracted to men at all, why would he let you do that?

He may not be lying about liking girls but he might be bisexual and in denial, thats what it sounds like.

Hope this helps.

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