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writes:Is giving blowjobs a bad thing? I've heard half and half but I really want to know so I won't do something I will regret.
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reader, peacedreamer +, writes (19 August 2007):
Performing fellatio on a man is not a "bad" thing. However, it isn't something that you want to do with a guy just because he wants you to. You want to be in a committed relationship with someone whom you love and more importantly who loves you. My rule, and I've lived and learned alot by now, is if we are in love and if he is willing to perform cunnilingus on me, then I will reciprocate. Guys can be very selfish in "bed" and if he isn't willing to do for you what he is asking you to do for him, then I definately would not. Also, young men do tend to use women for sexual gratification. It's in thier hormones I think. And the other writer is correct also, young men tend to brag, especially if they are not in love. You don't want to get a reputation to do that sort of thing with a guy when your not even out of high school yet. You've got lots of years ahead of you, don't start them off being used, what you do now will shape the rest of your life. Think wisely. Best of luck to you as you begin your new life.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (18 August 2007):
You are young, so I'd caution against it. But other than that, bad in what way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea I was going to wait till I'm about 18 or 19 not now!!!
I was just asking thanks for your help!!!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Nope not at all. But only do it if you want to!
You are suppose to use a condom still to protect against std's but ive never known anyone to do that!
C xxxx
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reader, ...cat...  +, writes (18 August 2007):
blowjobs arnt a bad thing!!!
but it says ur between 13-15, thats kind of young 2b getting in2 that kind of thing!!
if u decide u do want 2 give ur boyfriend 1, make sure u trust him!!! teenage boys tend 2 brag about that kind of thing & u mite get a bad reputation if he does, i think ur a bit young, usually these things lead up 2 sex very quickly, id leave it untill ur about 16 r so & ur with somebody u trust & care about!! whatever u do make sure its what u want & not just what he wants
good luck hun xxx
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