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*ovexgurl19
writes: I have a date with my boyfriend this Sunday, August 19. The thing is that we always do it, but I got my period today Saturday. Do you think is gross to do it, or does your period stop? Know should I tell him, im on it or what? Help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): i had sex with my gf on 21st and tat day(during intercourse) she got her periods....and we had safe sex.. but once we did hav a unprotected i dint cum inside... but i dont knoe if pre cum can make her pregnent..... well till noe(27 aug) she dint get her period... can she become pregnent?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): Some guys mind and some guys don't. In my experience, I have never had a boyfriend turn me down during my period. And I don't mind doing it while I am on my period ONLY if it is with a boyfriend I love and trust. Like I would NEVER have sex on my period with someone I was just dating. I wouldn't even dare suggest it.
I actually have a higher sex drive around the time I get my period. So sex might actually be better. Just go in the shower.
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (19 August 2007):
No, you don't stop bleeding. Not intentionally trying to give a gross image, but after I was done, I pulled it out of her, and there were traces of bloody on the condom. Not so nice. lol.
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reader, peacedreamer +, writes (19 August 2007):
I don't think it's gross. Your time of the month is natural. However, there are diseases of the blood that are highly more contagious that vaginal/semen excretions. I have Hepatitis C. My partner does not. It is NOT a sexually transmitted disease, however, it is passed by the blood, (no idea how I got it, I don't do drugs etc) as are many diseases and you should always use protection when you are on your period, even if you are in a monogamous relationship. Also, if you choose to have anal sex, not trying to gross you out, but if you do, always use a condom and switch condoms between anus and vaginal because there are things (germs that are natural to the anus, but not vagina) in the anus that can give you a vaginal infection. Best of luck.
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reader, lovexgurl19 +, writes (19 August 2007):
lovexgurl19 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for being helpful, but do you stop bleeding when your fucking???
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): You should definitely tell him and should not be ashamed to in the least! Getting your period is just part of being a woman- he'll understand that. You must not be very comfortable with him if you feel odd telling him.
I don't think it's gross, but that's just me. Don't worry about it- and I hope you're not feeling pressured to always have sex with this person!
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reader, daglish +, writes (18 August 2007):
I dont believe in having sex when one is having her periods. Infact i usually take it as my wife's grace period unless she is really in need.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (18 August 2007):
If you are cool with it and your boyfriend is aswell then it's fine, personally it does not stop me and my husband having sex.
I never have very heavy periods so it does not really make much difference to us.
You should definately tell him and ask his opinion on it.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (18 August 2007):
I think you should definately tell him. If it grosses him out, it's much better this way than for him to find out.. another way.
It's still something you could do. I for one used to have sex with my girlfriend while she was on, purely because we didn't have a lot of time to do it, due to the fact it was a long distance relationship and only had about a week or so.
So, yes you can still do it, but you should definately tell him before you do, and then see if he still wants to.
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