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writes: I've just started seeing a girl that I have loved for years. We had a bit of a thing years ago. Since which I've been through three relationships that hurt me badly and she's got a little 5 year old girl. The thing is is that I am finding it so hard to relax and go with the flow for fear of losing this girl that I've loved for so long. It's like a dream.... and I'm so scared of waking up to find its not real. I just dont know how to play the whole situation. Any advice about anything would be most appreciated. Thanks for reading this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): If your finding it hard to relax tell her how you feel and she would unsderstand..
as you have waited quite a long time and now you have finally got it together it shud be perfect..but to perfect means fings could go wrong..
just tell her how you feel, be relaxed and have the rest of your life as happy wiv her nd her little girl for as long as you can fink..Don't Be Ashamed your scared of losing the girl you have dreamed of for 5 years...tell her hw long you been wanting her and never wanna lose her as she means loadz to you..you will support her and her little girl.!
Hope The Little Advice Works..
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reader, missdee +, writes (1 October 2005):
Even though its true that "if it seems to good to be true it normally is" there are exceptions to the rule. I believe you two are one of them. Just Relax and enjoy the future you two have together. After all if its meant to be it will be. You can decide how long and how good it will be, by always treating her as you want to be treated.
I hope you have a Long a Happy Life Together.
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (1 October 2005):
well hun if this girl is showing she is so into you then sweetheart you better show your into her 2 or else you may lose her! why dont you explain to her that your scared of wakeing up to find her gone that way she can adventually convince you she ent going no where! thats really all the advice i can give you! try it you have nothing to lose! and really from my point of veiw its the only solution for you at the moment at least your good enough to take on her 5year old! give it time you will find 1 day you will be relaxing! pateint is really the answer here&so is telling her! actually i do have 1 more solution not sure if it will help tell her everything what you've done in a day, tell her every detail even if its silly things! your find your get more use to her&start relaxing. but i would advice you to go with solution 1.
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