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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i don't feel attractive! ive never had a gf or anything, i think it is because im not attractive. im 5ft and 14 stone. is there anything i can do 2 get noticed ? Reply to this Question
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Well
firstly you shouldnt think you are not attractive. Every body is in some way attractive. Girls dont go for looks its personality that really matters. Sometimes a girl might reject you because she wants looks more than personality, but just ignore her since she isnt worth the time.
Just make sure that you have good hygeine and go out there and meet new people. You never know you may meet someone who loves you :)
Remember its not what's on the outside its whats on the inside that counts (cliched but its true).
Good Luck xx
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 First, make sure your hygene is impecable. Geta dentist cleaning, make sure you use deorderant., keep your hair clean and managed, fingernails trim. Bathe daily, and on very hot days, bathe twice. This is only a first step.
Next, even if you are a large guy (so am I), you can still learn to dress for your size. (How much are stones vs pounds). If you were accessories, (watches, jewlery, etc..) make sure each one comes with a story to it. Storytelling is part of the seduction.
Check out my website if you like. I dress to suit my size, and even though I am not good looking, I still get pleasant attention.
-Frank B Kermit
franktalks.com
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female
reader, JessIzFit +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Heya, you don't have to be attractive to be noticed. But you could try all kinds of things. Try wearing bright colours or even having a different hair do. But as some 1 sed just be yourself. I bet you some1 somewhere realli loves you but is too scared too tell you =D The right person will come to you hun, just enjoy the roller coaster called life,
Hope i helped and mail me if you need any more help.
Louise
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reader, fishfood +, writes (15 June 2007):
 the most attractive part of any person is their personality and maybe ur not showing it to its full potential. be confident and let ur personality shine when ur around women and talking to them and they will soon start showing an interest. but remember, like the other poster said, dont "try" to be attractive as women dont like this and u can sometimes come across as arrogant or cocky. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): Think positive- achieve positive, that's what they say. If you truly believe that you are not attactive then you are leeting off bad vibes and that is what is probably stopping you from having a girlfriend.Get more confidence in yourself hun!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 The more you try to be "attractive", the more women will feel it and reject you. Just be yourself. Everyone eventually finds someone.
Now, if you don't usually brush your teeth or scream at people, that would definitely be an areas where you could do something to be "attractive", indeed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim 5ft 10
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